Mrs H, do we appear to you an individual who will not benefit from the connection obtained through discussion? Discussion just isn’t my love language because connection just isn’t my love content. The mixture of thoughts that we interpret as intimate love just isn’t mainly connection. It doesn’t mean that connection is unimportant during my idea of intimate love, nor that connection is unimportant in non-romantic love (or like, or acquaintance).
It is really not that folks whoever love-language that is primary desire ( maybe perhaps maybe not intercourse, keep in mind) are completely satisfied as humans with only their spouse and their work. That other connections are unimportant. They just provide one with something different, other than that which makes love that is up*romantic. Other activities that appear much less crucial whenever one does not have intimate love (and desires it) that one had.